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It started out as harmless fun. All you wanted to do was hook up and then go home to sleep in your own bed, but something happened, and now you actually like this guy and want more. The question is, how can you suddenly upgrade yourself from just a hookup to his girlfriend?
Make him miss you. Instead, avoid him sometimes. If you both regularly hang out at the same places, change your routine. Step up your texting game. Instead, try sending him sober texts to get together beyond hooking up.
Ask him out on an actual date. Okay, so this should be obvious. You can always reel him in later. Make jokes, flirt and just have fun.
Guys have a hard time resisting a sexy woman with a killer personality. Let him get to know who you are beyond a hot body. Make a real connection. Go ahead and talk to him. Get him talking and build a friendship. You should be willing to share your own reasons for this, too. Most guys hate nagging, needy women. They also hate being around bitchy women. While we all have those times, now is the time to avoid being any of those stereotypes. It might take several tries to get him talking. Call him out on his stuff.
Even hookups deserve respect. Asserting yourself makes a guy see you as a confident, attractive woman and not a quick way to relieve stress. If he suggests hooking up, turn him down. This makes him jealous, shows him you have a life outside of him and makes him want you even more. Check out Relationship Hero a site where highly trained relationship coaches get you, get your situation, and help you accomplish what you want.
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